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Year's End 2011



As the year draws to a close, we want to say how much we appreciate all our friends and family who saw us through the highs and lows of 2011. I can't remember many years having such vividly different peaks and valleys. Unfortunately this year will probably always be remembered as the "year of the accident." But there we a lot of great moments, too, not to be overshadowed by a few moments of terror and the subsequent aftermath. We had some great vacations, saw great live music, celebrated birthdays, spent countless nights with friends/family, and even saw a Cardinals World Series win.

The difficulties of life are intended to make us better, not bitter*- so here we are; A better family than ever, and ready to take on the adventures of 2012!

Safe and happy holidays to you all!

*Unnattributed quote
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Shy? Sure. Fly? You Bet.


Rush is an interesting riddle. Say hello to him too directly and he'll run behind the nearest knee. But give him a couch (or a swimming pool for that matter), and the kid is fearless. I didn't do him justice with this shot, though he gave me many opportunities!
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Happy Halloween


This year Halloween was a week-long event for the Murphy family. Leading off, Cary thoughtfully signed us up for a Halloween event at the Art Museum, which was a lot of fun. The kids got to color really cool Frankenstein's Monster posters, do a scavenger hunt in the museum, and get a family photo taken. Cary figured that Winnie would have no issue being Snow White four times... or every day for that matter. But she also knew Rush would not be cool with wearing his ultimate costume too often, so he became the man of many costumes. At the Art Museum he was an indian complete with stick horse. I have to respect the guy, he carried it the entire time without a second thought.



Then Cary took Rush to the Magic House, where they got to enjoy a rare day by themselves. Rush busted out his second costume: the masked ambiguous super hero! There is a reversible black/blue eye mask a la The Lone Ranger, and the reversible cape is Batman on one side and Spider Man on the other (although Spider Man doesn't actually wear a cape, and neither wears an eye mask). Worn with a Superman shirt to complete the confusion, the getup is really cute. The night Cary gave it to him, Rush kept running to the mirror, getting excited at the sight of himself, running over and hugging my legs, then dashing back to the mirror... over and over. Here is shot of him during that moment - decked out in his cape and jammies.


On Thursday night, we went to the Harvest Party that Greentree Church puts on. The event has really grown, and included a cool train you could ride, lots of game stations, and a fire-juggling act! Rush went back to the indian costume (sans horse) and Winnie remained faithful to her Snow White outfit. I didn't think to bring the camera, unfortunately, because I came straight from work.

Next was a Sunday night trick-or-treat session in our loft building. One of our neighbors thought it might be a good way to meet people since there are a lot of new faces in the building. So a few groups went around and there were people with door-hangers (no porch lights here!) to show that they were participating. We went along with Al (Buzz Lightyear) and Hope (Fairy), and the kids enjoyed themselves. It was a good warmup for Monday night, too.



For the big show, we started off at Grandma and Grandpa's house for a quick hello and photo shoot. Winnie finally had her Prince Charming: Rush in a tux! Although it confused a few homeowners when they were apart, even as a standalone he looked good. And, of course, Winnie transformed all the compliments coming her way into ballet moves!


Next, it was off to the Hogan's house in Rock Hill, which is walking distance from a Halloween superstar neighborhood in Warson Woods. Tons of kids, lots of people around fire pits in their driveways, police handing out glow necklaces, beer given out for the adults, and legit full-size candy for the kiddos. A large group of our friends meets up there, and walking around all together is a lot of fun for everyone. After trick-or-treat time, we dropped by our friend Stephen's house for the Halloween finale. We enjoyed a few minutes of the kids entertaining us (and Rush polished off his third fun-size bag of his new favorite: M&Ms).

All in all, I think we enjoyed ourselves as much as the kids. And Winnie might need to wear her Snow White dress a couple more times or suffer withdrawal!
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Cute Shot

I just put all of our Halloween photos on the computer, but realize I'm a couple months behind on other things I need to post. I'm either going to spend all day working on this blog, or I am just going to move on and start with Halloween. We'll see how the kids do with napping today. Until then, I love this photo. Winifred's teacher took it in September for their class website, and I had her e-mail it to me. I love it!
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Winnie At School

Winnie and Rush posing at the house before we left for her first day of school. Rush, of course, had to also wear his backpack to drop her off. It is an understatement to say how much we love her new school. It is such a safe and loving environment-perfect for my sweet little 3 year old baby girl.

Posing with her backpack next to her hook. This summer after our accident, Missy called Winnie's new teacher and filled her in on our accident. So, Mrs. Heinemann invited Winnie and I to come in on one of her work days during the summer and let Winnie meet her and "help out" in the classroom getting it ready for the upcoming start of school. One of the things that meant the most to Winnie was getting to pick out her hook and backpack tag...none of the other kids got to pick theirs out. She chose a pink pig. I am so thankful for that morning we spent in the class. I think it was medicinal for Winnie.

On Winnie's Star Day, she got to bring something in the "mystery bag" from home and try to get her classmates to guess what was inside. Here, she is trying to remember her clues with her teacher...1. She goes to school like we do, 2. She has wings, and 3. She has a pink nose.

Choosing who she wants to call on to take a guess. The guesses were all over the place: my shoes, a picture, Tinkerbell. I was dying laughing.

The big reveal- her Abby Cadabby doll!
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These Past Couple Months

Because I am really far behind...

These two are becoming better friends. Winnie often reads to him.

Rush is usually attempting to be too cool.

One day, so that I could have some rest time, Andy put up our 6 person tent in the loft.

We went to the Forest Park Member's Picnic, and Winnie was happy to get acquainted with Esmerelda the horse cop. Mounted Police, sure, but horse cop sounds pretty tough.


Winnie and Rush chasing bubbles at the Forest Park picnic

Teddy came over for some train time

Rush's favorite thing is to sit, just like this, and have me scratch his back and head. He forces me into it many times a day. I completely love it!

And, because I won't be able to post ones like this forever.
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Lately

I haven't posted much lately. Obviously, our car accident shook me up, and I'm just now starting to feel normal again. If this blog is a documentation of our lives as a family, I can just look back at this posting drought as a quiet time in our lives, when healing was happening. No post that I begin to draft feels right or seems honest.

In the meantime, my friends Matt and Ginny Mooney are doing amazing things with their blog right now. A series called "Blemish is Beauty," focusing on the plight of special needs children internationally. You can read the introduction to the series here. Make sure to read the posts you have missed, and I think they update every Thursday. Every time you wish that I would update my blog, please read theirs instead. I'm proud to know them.